I have had a sugar daddy for the past year and love it! I was a living stereotype before I started dating my sugar daddy. I was the girl going out at night, sleeping in and then watching TV all day. I lived with my grandmother who took care of me because my mom was so young when she had me and until I started dating a rich man I was on the same path. I was seeing guys who treated me like crap and had no jobs and I wasn’t doing anything to better myself at all. Heck! I even got sucked into taking a correspondence course that I heard about on a commercial that came on while watching Jerry Springer! Everyone worried that I was going to end up pregnant and on my own and deep down I didn’t really expect much more for myself. Thank god I ran into a girlfriend of mine who introduced me to millionaire dating sites and taught me to have higher standards when it came to the guys I was dating.
Sugar Daddy Dating Profiles:
My first sugar daddy date was a bit of a disaster because I went out with the first guy who messaged me when I joined a dating site for women looking for rich men. He was A LOT older than me and not my type at all. I was really nervous and didn’t even know how to behave around that man because he was just so different than me. It made me think that the whole sugar daddy thing wasn’t going to work for me at first, but a few days later I got a message from another man who was much younger and nicer looking. I’ll call him Joe since he would probably rather keep things private. Anyway, Joe is in his 40’s and very easy to talk to. He told me that he had never dated a black girl but had always found us attractive. I was always curious about what it would be like to date a white guy, so this was the perfect chance to try it out too! I’m so glad I didn’t let that first man mess with my plans to meet a rich guy because Joe ended up being a good fit!
My first date with Joe was just coffee but we talked for a long time and got along really well. Even though he owns a big company and is very rich, he never made me feel like he thought he was better than me. I worried that he was going to think I was just some ghetto chick and treat me like crap like other guys did, but he did the opposite. He was really jokey and easy and got my humor. Dude is funny!! And even though he’s older than me, it was never weird with him at all because he looks good and acts young. I have a new type thanks to Joe! And, I finally get treated like a queen which is what I wanted all along.
Me and Joe get along and see each other a few times a week but it’s a really open arrangement. I can see other guys and I have a few times. He doesn’t ask me who I see and I don’t ask him. We make plans to hook up and when we do we go out or stay in like you would with any regular guy you date. Yes, we do have sex most of the times that we see each other, but it’s cool. It’s not like we have sex and he hands me some cash like I’m a hooker or anything – since that’s what a lot of people think sugar daddies do. He actually transfers me $5000 a month which I use to pay my mortgage on the house that I just bought for me and my grandmother and to pay bills and go shopping with. He’s also very generous when he sees me and usually has a present for me. He knows what I like and buys me lots of designer clothes and shoes. You should see my closet! It’s stacked!!
Finding a sugar daddy has been the best thing that ever happened to me because it got me off the bad path I was on and has kept me from ending up just another single mom from the projects who struggles to make ends meet. I’ve been able to give back to my grandma who has given me so much and I’ve finally stopped dating guys who treat me like sh*t. I know that I deserve to be treated like a queen and love the way that hanging with Joe makes me feel. My life is so much better than it was and I know it’ll stay that way. And for any haters out there or people that think that being a sugar baby is about playin’ guys and getting paid for sex – you’ve got it all wrong! There’s nothing wrong with dating men with money and there’s nothing wrong with letting a guy be generous with you. Other girls like me need to wake up like I did and see that you don’t have to spend your time dating broke-ass guys who play you. Dating a sugar daddy is no different than dating other guys except that you can expect to get treated like a queen. My man is good to me, takes care of me, and has made it possible for me to buy my own house and put away money for a rainy day. My grandma has a beautiful place to live for the first time in her life thanks to me and my sugar daddy. You can hate and say all you want because at the end of the day, I know how well he treats me and I know that my future is brighter because of him. Sugar babies got it right! A woman deserves to be treated like a queen so why not go out of your way to meet the guys who’ll do that.